Couples looking to satisfy their wanderlust with a honeymoon will find that Big Sur has it all. The mountainous stretch of California coast stretches for 90 miles between Carmel and San Simeon, with nearly every mile being a sight to behold. The area’s winding roads hide all sorts of romantic gems, whether it be world-renowned restaurants or lookout points to take in the sweeping Pacific views.

Big Sur is known for attracting some of the greatest artists of the 19th and 20th centuries, and the ceaseless yearning for personal expression makes it an idyllic setting for any honeymoon. Whether staying at five-star hotels or glamping, adventure seekers will find that a Big Sur honeymoon checks all the boxes.

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Most Romantic Spot in Big Sur

Hidden within Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park is where you’ll find McWay Falls. The 80-foot waterfall is a terrific sight at all times of the day, but it’s truly spectacular at both sunrise and sunset, when the sun’s rays reflect off the water in just the right way. Not only is McWay Falls the perfect way to begin or conclude any day during your Big Sur honeymoon, but the Instagram photos almost take themselves in this gorgeous natural setting. Consider pairing a trup to the waterfall with a romantic picnic for two at the scenic state park.

Romantic Things to Do in Big Sur

  • No trip to Big Sur is complete without a drive over Bixby Bridge. Built in 1932, the bridge offers awe-inspiring Pacific views that are perfect backdrops for honeymoon photos.
  • If you’re planning a spring honeymoon, you’ll no doubt want to head to Calla Lily Valley to admire the lilies. The colorful flowers beautifully line the pathways down to the beach, so you’ll enjoy a romantic hike with an epic finale!
  • Bibliophiles and history buffs should check out the Henry Miller Memorial Library, which is bursting with charm and serves as a loving tribute to the iconic writer.
  • Other fantastic natural spots to visit at sunrise and sunset include Point Sur State Historic Park, Ragged Point, and Partington Cove.

Big Sur Restaurants & Local Cuisine

It’s all about variety at Big Sur. Since most restaurants on the coast offer mesmerizing views of the Pacific, choosing a restaurant comes down to personal taste. And whether you’re looking for five-star dining or a casual brunch spot, Big Sur has it all.

Here are some of our romantic dining favorites:

  • The proud recipient of a Michelin star, Sierra Mar is among the finest restaurants not only in Big Sur, but in the great state of California. The seasonal menu of farm-driven dishes would be worth the trip alone were it not for the breathtaking ocean views that the glass-only restaurant provides. It’s a romantic dining experience you’ll never forget.
  • The Sur House has also earned a Michelin Star, though its rustic ambiance offers a completely different experience for diners. Its setting within the high forests provides both sweeping sunset views and a cozy place to spend the evening around outdoor firepits. New American dishes like the West Coast Halibut and Kurobota Pork are worthy of the highest praise.
  • Warm and eclectic, Deetjen’s Big Sur Inn Restaurant offers four distinct romantic dining rooms for candlelit dining. The restaurant’s homey vibe seems to enhance the delicious American dishes on offer, and even the breakfast has won awards!
  • Both the indoor and outdoor dining options at Nepenthe provide some of the most stunning views of the Pacific you’ll ever enjoy. From the Nepenthe Steak to the California Beet Salad, you can’t go wrong with any dish at this romantic dining favorite.
  • Honeymooners looking for a multi-course dining experience should definitely head to The Lodge Restaurant. The Chef’s Four-Course Menu focuses on local, seasonal ingredients served in a space that offers spectacular sunset views.

Travel Tips

Traveling to Big Sur
Big Sur is fully accessible by car, though Monterey Regional (MRY) is the closest nearby airport and is serviced by American Airlines and United. International travelers will want to opt for San Jose Mineta International Airport (SJC) – about 80 miles away – or San Francisco International Airport (SFO) – about 110 miles away.

Getting Around Big Sur
Though there is the Monterey-Salina Transit System, the best way to experience Big Sur is by driving. There are plenty of car rental options in the area if you’re not local.

Weather in Big Sur
With average summer temperatures being around 76 degrees during the day and 50 at night, and winter being 60 degrees during the day and 43 at night, temps are always fairly mild in Big Sur. The summer sees almost no rain while the winter months average around 9 inches per month, so keep that in mind if you’re traveling outside of peak season.

What makes Big Sur special?
Between its rich artistic history, innovative culinary spots, and stunning natural beauty, Big Sur is a bucket list destination for any kind of couple.

What is the best month to travel to Big Sur?
Big Sur’s peak season – April through October – is the time when temperatures (typically high 70s during the day) offer the most enjoyable experience. Honeymooners may want to opt for the autumn, though, when the summer crowd has thinned out and the reduced lodging costs allow for a higher food and entertainment budget!

How many days do you need in Big Sur?
A few days in Big Sur is plenty to enjoy the 90-mile stretch of California coastline. Granted, if you’re an outdoorsy person or a devoted foodie, you can’t go wrong with an entire honeymoon at the gorgeous locale.